Summer Reading

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I’ve been an avid reader all my life.  I was quiet growing up and usually preferred to be in my room with a book (typically about horses) than spending time with peers I may or may not have liked.  That’s not to say I’ve gobbled up tons of enriching literature (I only wish I was Rory Gilmore), but the number of books that have fallen into my hands over the years is immeasurable.  Once I got to college, I read for pleasure far less; I suppose that it was too much mental energy to invest in a new world like that when I was already spent on trying to understand all those textbooks.  Instead, I watched way too much mindless TV.  Now that I’m a full-fledged “adult,” I’ve been trying to get back to books.  I was incredibly proud of myself for getting engrossed and finishing The Dovekeepers, which my mom had recommended to be months before I started reading it.  It was fabulous, and I immediately picked up another book that had been sitting on my shelf, unread, for almost a year.  Since this summer is all about keeping myself happy, I’ve made it a goal to read some new books I’ve been intending to tackle, and revisit some old favorites.

1. The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver.  I picked up a hardcover copy of this book for nothing on the bargain shelf at Barnes & Noble I don’t even know how long ago.  Kingsolver is possibly my favorite author ever, but this big novel was intimidating to me as I was running around exhausted from a job I hated and trying to find my real-world footing after graduating college.  I’ve finally started it.  I’m taking my time, reading a few pages in the morning with my coffee, a few pages a night before I go to bed, and maybe a little more on my days off when I feel ready to engage in it.

2. Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me (And Other Concerns)? by Mindy Kaling.  I have the electronic version of this book on my Kindle, which goes with me everywhere so I always have something to read when life gets slow unexpectedly.  It’s the perfect book to pick up for a few minutes when one of my clients is running a little late, or I’m sitting at the doctor’s office waiting my turn.

3. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte.  I’m certain I’ve read Jane Eyre before at some point in my life, but I cannot remember my experience of reading it.  I can tell you the significant plot points, but literally have no recollection of sitting down with the book.  Since I have it, it’s on my list to read this summer so that when everyone I know talks about how amazing it is, I can honestly and actively contribute to the conversation.

4. Frozen Heat by Richard Castle.  So, in college when I wasn’t reading much for myself, all I did read was very light chick lit and crime novels.  I became addicted.  I’ve been a fan of the show Castle since it started, and when I first saw Heat Wave in Borders a couple years ago, I bought it for my mom as a jokey Christmas gift.  Little did I know then, the books are actually really entertaining, and pretty well written.  All of the Nikki Heat books are published as if Richard Castle were really a best-selling author (I wish I knew who actually writes them!), and there are so many references to things that happen in the show.  Anyway, the fourth installment comes out September 11th, which I’m still going to count as summer because it’s the kind of thing that I’ll spend all night reading.

5. Animal Dreams by Barbara Kingsolver.  I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve read this book.  As I said earlier, Barbara Kingsolver is probably my favorite author, largely due to this book.  I first read it during my junior year of high school (not for class) and loved it.  My senior year, it was assigned reading.  I think I was the only person in class who actually read it since it was after AP testing and everyone was more concerned about life after graduation than reading another book.  Since, I’ve read it at least once a year, often around the same time as a big change or rough patch in my life.  No matter how many times I read it, I always find a new part that speaks to what I’m going through at that time.  The title of this blog actually comes from a quote in this book: “What keeps you going isn’t some fine destination but just the road you’re on, and the fact that you know how to drive. You keep your eyes open, you see this damned-to-hell world you got born into, and you ask yourself, ‘What life can I live that will let me breathe in & out and love somebody or something and not run off screaming into the woods?'”  I cannot recommend this book enough, especially to young women who feel they’re on a journey of self-discovery.

California Dreamin’: Surf and Turf

Surf and Turf
In ten days I will be on my way Southern California (the good part, past L.A.).  My family and I will be staying at my aunt’s house in Newport Beach, enjoying a little sun and sand.  We will also be spending a day at Del Mar Thoroughbred Club, which I am really excited about.  My dad and my daddy-daughter bonding thing has always been horse racing, and this is the first time we’ve been to Del Mar, which is one of the biggest race meets in the country.  For the occasion we’ve reserved box seats and I’ve been thinking a lot about how to present myself.  Del Mar is like a party, so a classy but comfy dress is essential.  If I weren’t broke, I’d be really sad that this adorable one-shoulder dress is sold out at ModCloth because it’s the perfect mix between elegance and easy-breezy California.  Add a big hat, bigger sunglasses, and comfy chic shoes, and I’m ready to go from the Turf Club to hollering on the rail.  A wristlet is an easy way to keep my ID and cash close without a bulky purse.  Binoculars are important for keeping an eye on the backstretch action, and of course the Daily Racing Form will be essential for Dad and me to pick out money-makers.

Nerd Girl: The Basics

Nerd Girl Basics
  1. I have read the Harry Potter series so many times I can recite long passages (even some chapters) from memory.
  2. Of all the books I read in high school, The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy is the only one that taught me anything of value: 42.
  3. Sometimes, I put on “Time Warp” and dance just because it’s awesome.  Also, my child will one day wear this.
  4. Perhaps the greatest thing to come from Joss Whedon’s mind, ever: “I swear by my pretty floral bonnet, I will end you.”
These are the essential elements of my nerdy side.  Beware, I may spontaneously quote any of these books/films/shows (among others), and will only be mildly disappointed when no one else around me gets my hilarious nerdy references.

The Ideal Me

In my head, there are two different images I have of my ideal self.

On the one hand, a sweetly sophisticated, Kate Spade-wearing, Olivia Palermo-esque young woman living in a sweet uptown apartment in a glamorous city, working a classy PR or fashion job.  On the other…

 

…a sassy, sparkly, hard-working show diva who rides her awesome show horses all day while wearing an awesome hat, a big belt buckle, and even bigger spurs.

 

Alas, I am in reality only a little bit of each of those things.  I am sweet, I ride horses…but day-to-day I’m wearing dirty jeans and sweating at my un-glamorous non-profit job, riding once per week and dreaming of one day getting back into showing.  I barely even put on makeup anymore.  But these mental images keep me going, keep me inspired to work toward my ideal life, when I wake up, head out to the barn and ride a horse or two, then step into my Lilly Pulitzer dress and cute heels and head off to do awesome urban-girl things.  Hey, a girl can dream, right?